It's a Mystery
It's a Mystery
Robert Paterson • Mar 15, 2021

Why would my father suffer from Bipolar and not his brother? Why would I not suffer, but my youngest sister does? Why would a "normal" family with no history of mental illness suddenly have a son in his early twenties develop schizophrenia?


Why any one of us develops mental illness is a mystery. Why me or why her, are questions that cannot be answered. Accepting that becoming mentally ill is such a lottery is a critical factor for everyone's well being. For unless we accept this mystery, then it is easy to let judgement into the equation. The risk is that the well members of the family take on the mantle of being righteous, and the ill member takes on the role of the bad person.


Such feelings and roles, once assumed, are not easily resolved by the protagonists. Having a sympathetic and professional outside advisor can make all the difference. Dunham House can help.


Remember, a cure is not the objective. A cure is not possible. All the time, focus on how can we all live better with mental illness. That is the goal.

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